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Translation, she was unable to find a better catch than you and thought she'd come sex you back. You did the right thing and blocked that action in the exactly right way. I'm proud of you Crete.:proud:
This. Way to go, Crete!
 

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Translation, she was unable to find a better catch than you and thought she'd come sex you back.

You know Nav you're right and to be 100% honest it probably would have worked if the other chick hadn't been there(literally at my house that day)....I would have caved because I'm a loyal and sometimes too forgiving soft ass SOB..... At the same time I'm not sure I would have wanted to hurt the new one because at the time she treated me like a King....Well at least for the next 4 years she did. That one turned out to be a certified PSYCHO....:lol: Yeah, nothing like coming home from work to find ALL of your sh!t gone.....Not once, because like I said I'm a soft ass, loyal person who tries to forgive, but TWICE..:banghead: but that's another story for another time.....and yes, she got hers in the end :lol2:. Ain't karma a b!tch...even when you marry one.
 

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You know Nav you're right and to be 100% honest it probably would have worked if the other chick hadn't been there(literally at my house that day)....I would have caved because I'm a loyal and sometimes too forgiving soft ass SOB..... At the same time I'm not sure I would have wanted to hurt the new one because at the time she treated me like a King....Well at least for the next 4 years she did. That one turned out to be a certified PSYCHO....:lol: Yeah, nothing like coming home from work to find ALL of your sh!t gone.....Not once, because like I said I'm a soft ass, loyal person who tries to forgive, but TWICE..:banghead: but that's another story for another time.....and yes, she got hers in the end :lol2:. Ain't karma a b!tch...even when you marry one.

I'm a softy too Crete. I let things go way longer than I should have in both of my marriages (especially the 2nd one). When you're in love, you tend to ignore signs that should be bright red neon signs...
 

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You know Nav you're right and to be 100% honest it probably would have worked if the other chick hadn't been there(literally at my house that day)....I would have caved because I'm a loyal and sometimes too forgiving soft ass SOB..... At the same time I'm not sure I would have wanted to hurt the new one because at the time she treated me like a King....Well at least for the next 4 years she did. That one turned out to be a certified PSYCHO....:lol: Yeah, nothing like coming home from work to find ALL of your sh!t gone.....Not once, because like I said I'm a soft ass, loyal person who tries to forgive, but TWICE..:banghead: but that's another story for another time.....and yes, she got hers in the end :lol2:. Ain't karma a b!tch...even when you marry one.
you gotta learn to stay away from the latinas... even though they are smoking hot. Latina's are certifiably bat sheet cray cray.
 

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I'm a softy too Crete. I let things go way longer than I should have in both of my marriages (especially the 2nd one). When you're in love, you tend to ignore signs that should be bright red neon signs...
Or you just try your best to be what a man is supposed to be...someone who sees things through good and bad times with someone you love....Either way there is a high percentage of women who have no respect for that quality today......
 

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you gotta learn to stay away from the latinas... even though they are smoking hot. Latina's are certifiably bat sheet cray cray.
I may post some of that story later.....Not as nutty as your story but it changed me a lot...and cost me a lot of money.
 

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You know Nav you're right and to be 100% honest it probably would have worked if the other chick hadn't been there(literally at my house that day)....I would have caved because I'm a loyal and sometimes too forgiving soft ass SOB..... At the same time I'm not sure I would have wanted to hurt the new one because at the time she treated me like a King....Well at least for the next 4 years she did. That one turned out to be a certified PSYCHO....:lol: Yeah, nothing like coming home from work to find ALL of your sh!t gone.....Not once, because like I said I'm a soft ass, loyal person who tries to forgive, but TWICE..:banghead: but that's another story for another time.....and yes, she got hers in the end :lol2:. Ain't karma a b!tch...even when you marry one.

c'mon... even though the latina is not an ex-wife.... you have to tell the story now!
 

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Married an extremely hot latina in 08. She could get a bit crazy here and there but everything else seemed to make up for it. That was BEFORE we got hitched. Turns out she was a sociopath living 2 seperate lives, one public that me, her fam and freinds knew about, and one private that only her multitude of sexual partners knew about. It all came out jerry springer style while I was away prepping for a combat deployment. Guy 1 was mad she stood him up one night and went out to some bars looking for her while she was actually out with guy 2. Guy 1 found her and guy 2 at a bar togther which led to a physical altercation and all being removed from the establishment. Later she went home and called guy 1 telling him to come over in order to attempt damage control. Guy 1 came over still mad and they got in a physical argument. Guy 1 threatened to blow the whistle on her secret life and multiple affairs, it escalated and he left the house with her phone. She ran to the nieghbors wearing nothing but lingerie and asked them to call the cops claiming someone had broken in and assaulted her. Cops show up and take her statement, immediatley feeling as if what she was saying didnt add up, and suspected a lovers quarrel. While taking statement and gathering evidence, guy 2 shows up for booty call (now about 2 am). Cops detain guy 2 and question him. Guy 2 claims they are just freinds and he was just checking on her b/c of the break in and assault despite her having no phone or other way to contact him and let him know of supposed assault. Cops doubt story of guy 2. While finishing up with guy 2, guy 1 drives back by the house. Cops immediately follow, pull him over and detain him. They all go back to the house. Cops take guy 1's statement where he tells everything and hands over her phone showing the messages he had sent to her husband (me) spilling the beans about everything. He also details the altercation between him and guy 2. Cops question guy 2 again and state if he doesn't tell the truth they will pull the bar video footage and charge him/arrest him. Guy 2 spills the beans and cooberates guy 1's story and admits that both of them have been having an affair with her but until that night neither of them knew about the other.

I recieve text messages when i get up at 5am and take emergency leave from my training location and then race home. Wife claims its all lies and the cops are confused and she just wants us to move forward, forget it, shes sorry for misunderstandings, etc. Total patholigical liar and complete sociopath. Later guy 1 who as it turns out had been carrying on an affair with her for more than a year, hands over to cops print outs of 1000s of pages of emails, text messages and internet instant messages between the two of them proving in extreme and quite graphic detail, the nature and complete extent of their sexual relationship. I got the pleasure of reading every word of it.

Needless to say we are divorced and I couldn't be happier about it. She actually did me a favor, the year prior to me finding out about all this she was an absolute insufferable b*tch who spent all my money and was as evil and nasty as anyone Ive ever met. After I got back from deployment I found out a lot more detail about her double life; truly sick what she had been doing behind my back.

But Im married to a wonderful woman now and couldnt be happier, and we have a sweet 2 year old son who shes the absolute best mom to in the world.

Beetches be crazy ma'ne!


Reminds me of the scene from "Old School" when he came home unexpectedly...

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Not a wife, but I found out a girl cheated on me. I was so angry I periodically booty called and grudge f'ed her for years afterwards (while I was single). Not my proudest moment. Cray-Cray.

Alex.
 

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They're ALL bat sheet cray cray Durty. Latinas don't have a monopoly on that sh*t.
:lol: oh yea they do. Most women have some crazy to them, but latinas take that crap to the nth degree man. Trust me, and pretty much every other white dude whos ever dated one. No white girls compare to sexy latinas, not even close.

My wife is very not crazy, we never fight about anything, ever. Shes as chill, fun, and easy going as can be. I learned my lesson the hard way and found a nice blonde haired, blue eyed caucasian girl. :grin:
 

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c'mon... even though the latina is not an ex-wife.... you have to tell the story now!
Brad I'm kind of the guy that really likes to have a woman around to be a part of my life so I guess at the time(I was 38) I fell too quickly since I had only been divorced for a few months when I met her...The first couple of things that attracted me to her was her "look".....She was literally about 5' tall, brown eyes and blonde hair(not real)...She might have weighted a buck o 5 at the most, and I kid you not when I tell you her fake Bozos barely fit under the big top...A few of my friends said they thought she might have been in the porn industry....:lol: She had a certain look that I should have known better......but when she put her feet all the way behind her head and screamed Spanish cuss words at me during sex(gigante caballo pene!!!) I was toast.....First came the brand new Toyota Limited 4 Runner I bought her then a 1.5 karat engagement ring, matching earrings, clothes and even a deposit for a lot to build a new house on as well as paying off about 40K personal debt...Cloths, don't even ask.....She spent about $500-600 or so a month on manicures, pedicures and waxing....Brazilian cut.:lol: if you know what I mean.....

Then it happened. Her mother who had been in remission from breast cancer for several years became active again and spread to her brain. At the same time her brother who lived close to us couldn't be reached for a week or so and we became concerned. I went to his house and could see him lying on the floor through the window of the living room. He had contracted Meningitis a week or so earlier but didn't want to tell anyone because he was also gay and had AIDS...If I hadn't forced my way into the house and called 911 he most likely would have died within the next 12-24 hours, it was that bad....Her mother went very quickly maybe a couple of months and her brothers recovery took over a month in the hospital....when he got out he had nowhere to go so I let him stay with us....You'd think this would make me a hero, right?...Wrong..We took care of her brother for a couple of months until he was well enough to go live with her Dad.....

During this time she became ULTRA religious and committed to a local church. She even converted from Catholic to Baptist but I just thought she would be Ok it was due to the tough times, right? She just wasn't herself but I let it go. Then I decided to take a job and close down a small side business we had started together. Maybe not being so close all the time would make her appreciate me again.......First f vcking day on the job I come home and notice everything in the house is GONE......We had been engaged for about a year at this point and she even promised her mother on her death bed she would marry me.....I was pretty shocked but remained composed, when to Target and bought myself a microwave and coffee pot for the next morning :lol:....Off to work I went for about 4 or 5 weeks trying to stabilize my self and start again......Then she calls and tells me she was pissed that I let a month go by without trying to call her to find out why....Anyway after some talking we agreed to begin seeing each other again but live apart....Well slowly but surely over a few months she had moved a lot of things back into my house so I felt the time was right to ask her again about getting married. I thought it went well......until I came home again and damned...she even took the new stuff I bought :facepalm:....Oh **** me I thought never again......Well wouldn't ya know about 4 months after that I came home from work one day and found her sitting in my driveway....Yup you guessed it my weener got the best of me again and we started shacking up ...again. Another 2 or 3 months went by and I noticed a similar pattern building in her behavior...Well as luck would have it I got called to go to Dallas for a 2 day training class for work... When I began digging through the closet and attic to find a suitcase I noticed a lot of items packed up,,,Well I knew this time what was coming so I went into the bathroom and took the engagement ring and diamond earrings as well as an emerald bracelet that I had bought her and walked into the bedroom to tell her to just leave now and spare me the drama....She gets up and goes to the bathroom where she always put the ring and jewelry before going to bed. She came back out and DEMANDED that I give her the ring back....F vck that I told her, she had kept it the 2 previous times, and the b!tch straight up lost her marbles :bananaburn: Broke a huge hanging mirror, ripped a phone out of the wall and broke several glasses that were sitting on the dining room table before leaving.....
Last I saw of her until she stopped by out of the blue 3 months later....which just happened to be the same day I finished moving one of her best friends(Filipino) into my house :lmao2:good times I tel lya....
 

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Edited the thread title. It's really about us guys who've gotten screwed. Sorry for the moment of insanity.
 

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Holy crap. If these stories become made-for-TV movies, you probably won't see them on the Disney channel.
 

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First wife,........perfect in most ways...........except one of the most important ways.............together almost married 25 years and together 30. Divorce was final on our 25 anniversary. Second , great in that way #1 wasnt but OCD times ten. And her family is like those I read about in Dear Abby or Ann Landers growing up. I used to wonder where those people were. I found them. Like I tell people. God has a real sense of humor and probably smiles when he observes me if not actually laughs out loud. My naivete is fine in my profession but did not serve me well in life. (and some of you think it is an act)
 

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Brad I'm kind of the guy that really likes to have a woman around to be a part of my life so I guess at the time(I was 38) I fell too quickly since I had only been divorced for a few months when I met her...The first couple of things that attracted me to her was her "look".....She was literally about 5' tall, brown eyes and blonde hair(not real)...She might have weighted a buck o 5 at the most, and I kid you not when I tell you her fake Bozos barely fit under the big top...A few of my friends said they thought she might have been in the porn industry....:lol: She had a certain look that I should have known better......but when she put her feet all the way behind her head and screamed Spanish cuss words at me during sex(gigante caballo pene!!!) I was toast.....First came the brand new Toyota Limited 4 Runner I bought her then a 1.5 karat engagement ring, matching earrings, clothes and even a deposit for a lot to build a new house on as well as paying off about 40K personal debt...Cloths, don't even ask.....She spent about $500-600 or so a month on manicures, pedicures and waxing....Brazilian cut.:lol: if you know what I mean.....

Then it happened. Her mother who had been in remission from breast cancer for several years became active again and spread to her brain. At the same time her brother who lived close to us couldn't be reached for a week or so and we became concerned. I went to his house and could see him lying on the floor through the window of the living room. He had contracted Meningitis a week or so earlier but didn't want to tell anyone because he was also gay and had AIDS...If I hadn't forced my way into the house and called 911 he most likely would have died within the next 12-24 hours, it was that bad....Her mother went very quickly maybe a couple of months and her brothers recovery took over a month in the hospital....when he got out he had nowhere to go so I let him stay with us....You'd think this would make me a hero, right?...Wrong..We took care of her brother for a couple of months until he was well enough to go live with her Dad.....

During this time she became ULTRA religious and committed to a local church. She even converted from Catholic to Baptist but I just thought she would be Ok it was due to the tough times, right? She just wasn't herself but I let it go. Then I decided to take a job and close down a small side business we had started together. Maybe not being so close all the time would make her appreciate me again.......First f vcking day on the job I come home and notice everything in the house is GONE......We had been engaged for about a year at this point and she even promised her mother on her death bed she would marry me.....I was pretty shocked but remained composed, when to Target and bought myself a microwave and coffee pot for the next morning :lol:....Off to work I went for about 4 or 5 weeks trying to stabilize my self and start again......Then she calls and tells me she was pissed that I let a month go by without trying to call her to find out why....Anyway after some talking we agreed to begin seeing each other again but live apart....Well slowly but surely over a few months she had moved a lot of things back into my house so I felt the time was right to ask her again about getting married. I thought it went well......until I came home again and damned...she even took the new stuff I bought :facepalm:....Oh **** me I thought never again......Well wouldn't ya know about 4 months after that I came home from work one day and found her sitting in my driveway....Yup you guessed it my weener got the best of me again and we started shacking up ...again. Another 2 or 3 months went by and I noticed a similar pattern building in her behavior...Well as luck would have it I got called to go to Dallas for a 2 day training class for work... When I began digging through the closet and attic to find a suitcase I noticed a lot of items packed up,,,Well I knew this time what was coming so I went into the bathroom and took the engagement ring and diamond earrings as well as an emerald bracelet that I had bought her and walked into the bedroom to tell her to just leave now and spare me the drama....She gets up and goes to the bathroom where she always put the ring and jewelry before going to bed. She came back out and DEMANDED that I give her the ring back....F vck that I told her, she had kept it the 2 previous times, and the b!tch straight up lost her marbles :bananaburn: Broke a huge hanging mirror, ripped a phone out of the wall and broke several glasses that were sitting on the dining room table before leaving.....
Last I saw of her until she stopped by out of the blue 3 months later....which just happened to be the same day I finished moving one of her best friends(Filipino) into my house :lmao2:good times I tel lya....

I'd really love to introduce you to MGTOW. I believe you'd benefit greatly from it.:giggle:
 

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