You need to remember they're your kids. When I got older and my dad got mad and called me an SOB for misplacing one of his tools, I asked him why he talked about his wife like that. Last time he ever used that phrase. May have been the last time he ever cursed at me.
Favorite town in Florida is Chumuckla. Second favorite is Pace. The Big Bend area is my favorite area because it was a close drive while I matriculated at a nearby elite university. Cedar Crest was a go to place to impress my then future bride.
"Judges", at any level for any purpose are always corrupted by an agenda different from intentions. The only judge you can trust is God and if He is judging you, you will be found as guilty as Sin.
The interesting statement is that a D1 power 5 school needs 13M in NIL funding to "maintain" their roster. Tennessee thinks they can whip up 25M in NIL support without question. Right now UF seems to have 16M in NIL support.
Wasn't there country. The state was. You need to stop judging based on today's social construct and put yourself into the era of the 1800s. My oath was to the Constitution which gives sovereignty to the states. Not the Federal government.
Oh, I got a little sidetracked. Yes the early Klan...