- Jul 29, 2014
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Alright I know this is a little off the wall but I could really use some help with my soon to be 9 year old son and his recent behavior. Tuesday after school he had his Black Belts for Christ Jiu Jitsu class which is held at his private school he attends. This was his second class and the first seemed to go alright so I was shocked to find out that he was removed from the class for this past week when after having a meltdown when his team lost he actually lashed out at a junior instructor with his nanchaku's(rubber)......
We placed him on restriction from any of his after school activity's which mostly include playing with his Ipad and Play Station. We told him it would be several weeks before these priviledges would be returned if he could behave himself and stay out of trouble.....Well today when I picked him up from school I was sure he had been a perfectly behaved student and didn't think to even ask about his day....When we got home I noticed his daily folder was not in his back pack. Well I pried it out of him that he left it on purpose so I wouldn't see that he had gotten Orange for the day on his behavior chart....Orange is the worst and leaves it up to the school to decide the punishment. He confessed that he had called a girl classmate an a$$hole.....
I'm not sure about the rest of you but I only got whipped with a belt 3 times in my life....it worked for me and other than a few times I stayed out of trouble despite being a average student. Let me say that this really has me perplexed. My son can be a very loving and caring kid who makes mostly A';s and B's in school to a complete freakin hellion that I want to beat in the worst way.He makes me proud as a parent because of the fact that he was diagnosed as Autistic at 2 years old and over the course of almost 7 years has become completely mainstreamed and very much an "average kid"....on the other hand he seems to be easily aggravated when frustrated by people, both adults and kids, and even shows some signs of being manipulative with his Mother and Grandmother.
I'm not sure what to do here because it really tears his Mothers heart out when he behaves like this and ruins the whole mood of the house afterwards.....
We placed him on restriction from any of his after school activity's which mostly include playing with his Ipad and Play Station. We told him it would be several weeks before these priviledges would be returned if he could behave himself and stay out of trouble.....Well today when I picked him up from school I was sure he had been a perfectly behaved student and didn't think to even ask about his day....When we got home I noticed his daily folder was not in his back pack. Well I pried it out of him that he left it on purpose so I wouldn't see that he had gotten Orange for the day on his behavior chart....Orange is the worst and leaves it up to the school to decide the punishment. He confessed that he had called a girl classmate an a$$hole.....
I'm not sure about the rest of you but I only got whipped with a belt 3 times in my life....it worked for me and other than a few times I stayed out of trouble despite being a average student. Let me say that this really has me perplexed. My son can be a very loving and caring kid who makes mostly A';s and B's in school to a complete freakin hellion that I want to beat in the worst way.He makes me proud as a parent because of the fact that he was diagnosed as Autistic at 2 years old and over the course of almost 7 years has become completely mainstreamed and very much an "average kid"....on the other hand he seems to be easily aggravated when frustrated by people, both adults and kids, and even shows some signs of being manipulative with his Mother and Grandmother.
I'm not sure what to do here because it really tears his Mothers heart out when he behaves like this and ruins the whole mood of the house afterwards.....