Yep....the first time wasn't terrible for me as she was very fair. We split everything, savings, possessions, vehicles and sold a house to split the equity...
The second time I wasn't even married just a long engagement but I paid off tons of her debt, bought her a nice vehicle, and a lot of jewelry including a nice solitaire.....I was planning a trip out of town and got wind she was going to move out when I was gone. The night before I left I went into the bathroom where she took the ring off at night and put it in my pocket. I came out and told her if she had a place to spend the night I'd prefer she took her sh!t and got out right then....first thing she went for was the ring...
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