If I was in SFL inland of landfall, and it didn't get any stronger than 130mph, I'd stay as long as I wasn't in a flood zone and in a well built home.
Seems like we have this discussion annually. But yes, homes are completely different post Andrew, and can take nearly anything thrown at them. Add in that palm trees bend a lot more than oak and pine, and it’s much more tame than people think. Doesn’t mean you can’t have roof issues, but even that isn’t a definite if things are built well. I’ve evacuated once for Frances and will never again. The way these storms have been recently, unless you’re prepared to leave the state and then guess it right in whether to go East or West, you’re probably going to spend 10-15 hours on the road—dangerous in itself—just to get to NoFla and may still lose power and still be at risk. Storms are too big now and no longer seem to just skirt the coast and wreck NC instead like they used to.
We took nasty hits from Frances, Jean, Wilma, and others and never even had a seal leak on my windows. Same with my in-laws. It’s not ideal, but it’s the risk you run living in Florida(all of it apparently now).