No, it is an observation that all teams with passionate fanbases have, um, shall we say, unrealistic fans who poison trees, throw bricks through windows, etc. or post on web forums unceasingly about how stooopid the HC is. We're no different.
I share your disgust with the points you perfectly made above. 110%. The record you cite (and a lot more) is completely unacceptable for us.
That said, I can be won over by the current HC. Most of the Gator Nation can - by winning and even better, winning in an enjoyable way (i.e. with an offense that's fun to watch and effective at moving the ball and scoring points). There are some he will never win over - in my opinion.
Again, I'll happily reengage at the end of the season and take my lumps - if I'm wrong.