I’m in a similar situation. My car weighs ~ 3,600 pounds. That’s heavy. It’s quick, powerful, handles exceptionally well with the wide stance and Quattro. It’s not a throw-it-around car like a Porsche. You can feel the difference driving.
I’m cool with it. I’m not going to the track. I’m going up and down urban streets. The car feels planted, substantial, well built. That appeals to me at my older age.
Porsches now come with electronic steering. You can steer the car with your pinky. It makes a lightweight car feel even lighter. Too light. I traded one in on this car and immediately fell in love with the greater steering feedback, the throwback feeling. Almost like digital versus analog.