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. Once you get into a routine you'll probably look forward to it (I generally watch a show ONLY on the bike - so if I want to watch that particular show I have to get on the bike).
I love this kind of mind control game....My deal is if I want a beer or 2 that day before dinner then I have to do either 30-40 minutes of cardio or either a full upper or lower body workout. Same is true for "pig out" day during CFB season....no workout means no ribs, pizza, wings or whatever I have planned for the game feast...
 

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Alright since we have a little renewed interest in this thread and some new people wanting to get started or just restarting, I wanted to mention something that I never brought up since starting it nearly a year ago.....mental approach.

I'm not talking about the will power to resist having cheesecake before you go to bed or skipping the french fries with your turkey sandwich for lunch. We all fight that and how you choose to deal with it best I will leave up to you.

What I do strongly recommend is forming a vision for where you want your fitness journey to lead you. Crazy, right? Well, the picture I posted of reaching my goal weight by my last birthday is the same exact picture I visualized 8 months earlier when beginning my journey.....Call me crazy if you want, I don't care and I may come off sounding a little off my rocker but here goes.....I've never done ANYTHING meaningful in my adult life without first picturing where I would end up.

This goes for other areas of my life including first career, relationships, financial milestones, houses, cars and even my current life situation....all of it seen in my mind before it happened. Again, to some this might come off as crazy but I think if you believe in something enough to invest time and effort you really should have a destination to where you want it to lead you.
 

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orming a vision for where you want your fitness journey to lead you

Not crazy at all. Necessary. Without a plan, you don't know if you're on/off track. Without an endpoint, you are just wandering aimlessly hoping you end up in the right place.
 

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Alright since we have a little renewed interest in this thread and some new people wanting to get started or just restarting, I wanted to mention something that I never brought up since starting it nearly a year ago.....mental approach.

I'm not talking about the will power to resist having cheesecake before you go to bed or skipping the french fries with your turkey sandwich for lunch. We all fight that and how you choose to deal with it best I will leave up to you.

What I do strongly recommend is forming a vision for where you want your fitness journey to lead you. Crazy, right? Well, the picture I posted of reaching my goal weight by my last birthday is the same exact picture I visualized 8 months earlier when beginning my journey.....Call me crazy if you want, I don't care and I may come off sounding a little off my rocker but here goes.....I've never done ANYTHING meaningful in my adult life without first picturing where I would end up.

This goes for other areas of my life including first career, relationships, financial milestones, houses, cars and even my current life situation....all of it seen in my mind before it happened. Again, to some this might come off as crazy but I think if you believe in something enough to invest time and effort you really should have a destination to where you want it to lead you.

One of my running goals for about 3, 4 years was breaking 3 hours in the marathon - I failed 5 times going for it, then finally hit it. Pretty much every other distance, except the marathon, I felt that I had run a "perfect race" (i.e. I "didn't leave anything on the course" - gave it my all). The marathon is such a different beast.

I read a quote from a champion 5K runner turned marathoner - basically, "When you run a 5k you should be uncomfortable the entire race. When you run a marathon, you find your pace and you sit in it....for 26 miles!"

I'm sure had I gotten into distance running in my younger years it would have been easier - but I finally hit the sub-3 hour goal just after I turned 40 years old. Within 2 years I was pretty much done with distance racing - I had "lost my mojo". There was nothing left to do, no more goals. The funny thing is - I still never felt like I ran a "perfect" marathon, even when I broke 3 it wasn't "perfect". Best race I ever ran was the Gate River Run (in Jacksonville, the USA 15K Championship) - ran a 59:01, and had I known I was that close to breaking 59 minutes I probably would have found another gear, finished in the top 150 out of 15,000+ runners (including 25 professional men & 25 professional woman).

So yes - I agree, the mental approach to fitness goals are huge.
 

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Best race I ever ran was the Gate River Run (in Jacksonville, the USA 15K Championship) - ran a 59:01, and had I known I was that close to breaking 59 minutes I probably would have found another gear
You’re looking at this all wrong. You should be congratulating yourself for comfortably finishing in under an hour!
 

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You’re looking at this all wrong. You should be congratulating yourself for comfortably finishing in under an hour!

I ran 3 sub 60's in the Gate. Fun race, the bridge at the end sucks, but otherwise it's always a good time! And I was one of the first to the beer garden after each race!
 

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I don't pop in this forum very often - just saw this thread and skimmed through it. So to sum up, Crete was a fatty and he's not so much of a fatty anymore? Also, Coach is under 6' and 219lbs? So Coach is also a fatty? How many other fatty's do we have hanging around here?
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I followed this with a little envy.

Jumped into a version of 75 Hard through a church group this Jan. 2. I have failed to stay with it due to various distractions and travels, but have gotten into a fitness routine. Actually finished a 6 week lifting program on the Body Fit app mid-Feb. The first time I have lifted that consistently since before I got married 30 years ago. Didn't lose but a few pounds, but lost a couple inches in the middle and can tell some good weight emerging. The selfies show progress.

Took the last couple weeks off (again, travel), but back at it this week. Trying to make it a habit...something I have never had...even when young. I just played sports and lifted in the off seasons as required, but never with much effort. I was quite skinny as a kid (graduated HS at 145).

I am 5' 9.5" (seemed to have lost a little height from my official military entry height of 5' 10.25"). I was, at one time up to 275. I lost 35 pounds 5 years ago and found about 10 of it. Last weighed 245 at the gym a couple weeks ago.

Goal is 200, but I have to commit to a better diet. I gave up sweets for the 75 Hard diet requirement, but it has to move to a more formal nutrition plan if I am going to lose effectively. That is what worked 5 years ago.
 

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Took the last couple weeks off (again, travel),
Dude, throw some excerise bands in your suitcase....

You Will Not Cry Full Metal Jacket GIF
 

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I followed this with a little envy.

Jumped into a version of 75 Hard through a church group this Jan. 2. I have failed to stay with it due to various distractions and travels, but have gotten into a fitness routine. Actually finished a 6 week lifting program on the Body Fit app mid-Feb. The first time I have lifted that consistently since before I got married 30 years ago. Didn't lose but a few pounds, but lost a couple inches in the middle and can tell some good weight emerging. The selfies show progress.

Took the last couple weeks off (again, travel), but back at it this week. Trying to make it a habit...something I have never had...even when young. I just played sports and lifted in the off seasons as required, but never with much effort. I was quite skinny as a kid (graduated HS at 145).

I am 5' 9.5" (seemed to have lost a little height from my official military entry height of 5' 10.25"). I was, at one time up to 275. I lost 35 pounds 5 years ago and found about 10 of it. Last weighed 245 at the gym a couple weeks ago.

Goal is 200, but I have to commit to a better diet. I gave up sweets for the 75 Hard diet requirement, but it has to move to a more formal nutrition plan if I am going to lose effectively. That is what worked 5 years ago.
If the goal is to keep those 45 pounds off and not just lose them temporarily, then your method of losing is slowly is the way to go. I’ve had to cut back on carbs and that’s even more effective than giving up sweets. The hardest thing for many is exercising, but that doesn’t sound like your issue. I imagine if you keep working out, keep off the sweets and carbs and eat smart you’ll meet your goal.
 

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One of my running goals for about 3, 4 years was breaking 3 hours in the marathon - I failed 5 times going for it, then finally hit it. Pretty much every other distance, except the marathon, I felt that I had run a "perfect race" (i.e. I "didn't leave anything on the course" - gave it my all). The marathon is such a different beast.

I read a quote from a champion 5K runner turned marathoner - basically, "When you run a 5k you should be uncomfortable the entire race. When you run a marathon, you find your pace and you sit in it....for 26 miles!"

I'm sure had I gotten into distance running in my younger years it would have been easier - but I finally hit the sub-3 hour goal just after I turned 40 years old. Within 2 years I was pretty much done with distance racing - I had "lost my mojo". There was nothing left to do, no more goals. The funny thing is - I still never felt like I ran a "perfect" marathon, even when I broke 3 it wasn't "perfect". Best race I ever ran was the Gate River Run (in Jacksonville, the USA 15K Championship) - ran a 59:01, and had I known I was that close to breaking 59 minutes I probably would have found another gear, finished in the top 150 out of 15,000+ runners (including 25 professional men & 25 professional woman).

So yes - I agree, the mental approach to fitness goals are huge.
Did you ever trying seeing in your minds eye that time as you were crossing the finish line? In my case I weighted myself first thing in the morning after taking my shirt off and getting out of bed(you weigh less after a goods nights seep) and the digital numbers reading 220...


Like I said it may sound whacker doodle to some but ANYTHING meaningful in my life over the last 30 years or so has been "seen" before it was done. Even certain smaller goals like getting through my workday when I used to sell or run route sales jobs being done by a certain time and reaching certain numbers....I put the number in my mind ahead of time
whether it was on the clock to get home in time to workout or meet a sales goal.

I do this on almost a daily basis even if it is something as simple as seeing numbers of calories burned during a specific time frame doing cardio or like the other day reaching a PR on the standing military press.

I should mention this to anyone reading this to practice this in a realistic manner......something I learned many years ago when visualizing breaking boards with my fist.... I broke the the board but also have a somewhat disfigured right hand by doing so... :lol:
 

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A little check in and maybe reset. Still hitting it pretty much everyday but cardio is becoming laborious to say the least. I've tried the long walks(10,0000 steps) instead of the Airdyne bike but IT's hard on me to stay focused at such low intensity levels and I really don't like stopping and talking to my neighbors... Diet is not what it was when I was losing weight last year which is starting to "weigh" on my psyche a little....pardon the pun. As mentioned as far back as last fall I started adding calories after getting down to 215# because I felt my upper body just wasn't responding to my workouts despite still wanting to lose another 10-12#. I'm still following the same intermittent fasting schedule of eating between 11AM and 7-8PM.

Good part of the diet is still the same, Turkey, bacon, tomato and lettuce wrap, one sleeve of spicy peanuts and a plant based protein bar for the early feeding and sometimes an orange too. Second feeding begins around 5.30-6.00pm with a handful of fresh blueberries, a handful or 2 of baby carrots(protein shake if after weights) and then on to a dinner plate sized salad, followed by about 10oz of grilled or blackened chicken breast, or steak and usually some Moroccan couscous salad as a starch. So far so good....problem is over the last 2-3 months I've also added a second protein bar and sometimes even a small bowl of pretzels with cottage cheese after that....I'm also back up to consistently drinking 3-4 Mich Ultra's prior to and during this feeding time.

The results are mixed. I'm back up to 221-224# depending on the time of day and day of the week....Saturday's are Uber rewards day and we almost always order out that night so I'm a few pounds heavier until Monday mornings(I weigh myself 2-3 X a week). My stomach doesn't feel as flat as when I was around 215-216#. That's the bad news.

The good news is my shoulders, upper arms, back and chest have filled out or at least my shirts and mirror(along with my wife but we all know they lie about the size of things:lol2:) tell me so. Performance is also coming along fine(adding weights and/or reps at almost every workout. Almost no shoulder discomfort......Since I wear gym shorts about 99% of the time including at work I picked up the 34" waist jeans I pulled out a year or so back and put them on this morning...they're fitting just about the same as the last time I wore them probably 3-4 months ago(I'm not gonna lie there is about 1/2"-3/4" "rollover" or muffin top at the hips and under the belly button areas.

Question is how do I find a way to add strength and keep that "pumped" feeling/look between workouts while getting closer to the 205-210# range and how do I get back to the mindset to stop the excess calories again.... Maybe someone here has some Jedi mind tricks or motivational techniques to get me moving in that direction again? I won't stop working out but I feel like I'm going just through the motions. Any ideas?
 
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A little check in and maybe reset. Still hitting it pretty much everyday but cardio is becoming laborious to say the least. I've tried the long walks(10,0000 steps) instead of the Airdyne bike but IT's hard on me to stay focused at such low intensity levels and I really don't like stopping and talking to my neighbors... Diet is not what it was when I was losing weight last year which is starting to "weigh" on my psyche a little....pardon the pun. As mentioned as far back as last fall I started adding calories after getting down to 215# because I felt my upper body just wasn't responding to my workouts despite still wanting to lose another 10-12#. I'm still following the same intermittent fasting schedule of eating between 11AM and 7-8PM.

Good part of the diet is still the same, Turkey, bacon, tomato and lettuce wrap, one sleeve of spicy peanuts and a plant based protein bar for the early feeding and sometimes an orange too. Second feeding begins around 5.30-6.00pm with a handful of fresh blueberries, a handful or 2 of baby carrots(protein shake if after weights) and then on to a dinner plate sized salad, followed by about 10oz of grilled or blackened chicken breast, or steak and usually some Moroccan couscous salad as a starch. So far so good....problem is over the last 2-3 months I've also added a second protein bar and sometimes even a small bowl of pretzels with cottage cheese after that....I'm also back up to consistently drinking 3-4 Mich Ultra's prior to and during this feeding time.

The results are mixed. I'm back up to 221-224# depending on the time of day and day of the week....Saturday's are Uber rewards day and we almost always order out that night so I'm a few pounds heavier until Monday mornings(I weigh myself 2-3 X a week). My stomach doesn't feel as flat as when I was around 215-216#. That's the bad news.

The good news is my shoulders, upper arms, back and chest have filled out or at least my shirts and mirror(along with my wife but we all know they lie about the size of things:lol2:) tell me so. Performance is also coming along fine(adding weights and/or reps at almost every workout. Almost no shoulder discomfort......Since I wear gym shorts about 99% of the time including at work I picked up the 34" waist jeans I pulled out a year or so back and put them on this morning...they're fitting just about the same as the last time I wore them probably 3-4 months ago(I'm not gonna lie there is about 1/2"-3/4" "rollover" or muffin top at the hips and under the belly button areas.

Question is how do I find a way to add strength and keep that "pumped" feeling/look between workouts while getting closer to the 205-210# range and how do I get back to the mindset to stop the excess calories again.... Maybe someone here has some Jedi mind tricks or motivational techniques to get me moving in that direction again? I won't stop working out but I feel like I'm going just through the motions. Any ideas?
Not sure if your including a gym or trying to workout at home, but I have a muni gym membership (cheap for the family with veteran's discount).

I did a 6-week program called Rise & Grind on Bodybuilder.com starting Jan 2 this year. It tightened up a lot of loose muscles and probably hit my upper body better than anything I have done since high school.

I am starting it again tomorrow morning. Did a circuit thing since knowing I was going to miss a lot of time for vacations and trips to the ranch. And the circuit thing didn't build anything...just felt like spending time.

Bottom line...at our age, programatic lifting with proper rest time is still the best way to tighten up and even build muscle.
 

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Not sure if your including a gym or trying to workout at home, but I have a muni gym membership (cheap for the family with veteran's discount).

I did a 6-week program called Rise & Grind on Bodybuilder.com starting Jan 2 this year. It tightened up a lot of loose muscles and probably hit my upper body better than anything I have done since high school.

I am starting it again tomorrow morning. Did a circuit thing since knowing I was going to miss a lot of time for vacations and trips to the ranch. And the circuit thing didn't build anything...just felt like spending time.

Bottom line...at our age, programatic lifting with proper rest time is still the best way to tighten up and even build muscle.
Yeah, I think the circuit training thing is ok for a couple of weeks if you're just starting out or getting back into fitness after a layoff but I agree it is limited in it's effectiveness at building strength. I did it for the first month or so when I started off a year and half back but dumped it for a more effective full body workout which I did for about 6-8 weeks before splitting my workouts into upper body and lower body/abs/core.

I did these workouts almost exclusively using supersets of opposing body parts which I think helped me burn fat faster....but working that hard without rest also diminished any gains other than a post workout pump. Now that I'm using 60-90 second rest periods and focusing on one body part at a time I've started adding some decent gains. My arms have never felt bigger and I do zero specific exercises for my arms, just added weight and reps to my basic exercises.

I workout at home simply because in my mind if I spend 20 minutes going to the gym and 20 minutes going home I've lost almost the same amount of time it takes me to do a weight training workout(40-45 minutes). I also have over 600# of free weights, an Olympic barbell, rack & bench, smith machine, dumbbell's, a pulldown machine, and a sh!tton of other attachments and such that I've purchased over the last 30 years.
 

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Oh no, I don't waste a drop....:lol:
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Have you taken a look at your total daily calorie intake vs your daily output?

I believe in the calorie deficit rule. As long as you adhere to it, weight will come off. Slowly, but that's really the best way, and the way one is most likely to keep it off.
 

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