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Gatoravatara;n85398 said:I never liked trashing people either, especially JD-who has not stolen $12MM from Florida. And I am actually a very positive person. I used to look forward to Saturdays. Even if we lost, we normally put up a good fight and it was exciting to watch. Now it is very painful-even when we win. Nobody on this forum hates the Gators. On the contrary, we all LOVE the Gators. Or else we would not care. Think of it as a marriage. If people are fighting, they still care. Once they have given up on the marriage they are silent and just accept. When we are critical here, it is tough love. The person that is on meth might take it as being cruel, but true friends will keep it real. I am not attached to any particular coach. I am attached to winning.
Here's an example of the issue. No one has stolen $12MM from Florida. WM was hired to do a job - and he worked hard at it. "He was hired to win and win championships!" you say. Well, we may want a certain performance result from our coach, but unless we demand it by writing it into his contract, it is wrong (immoral) for us to say he has stolen by not producing the results we expected. Now, you might be trying to use hyperbole and you might not. I'm sure some here would argue that he has stolen the money. ...and it is in that climate of extreme opinion (Ox likes to excuse it 'cause we're "fans") that people who aren't used to such false accusations feel compelled to stand up for our coach (he is still our team's coach) and defend him from slander. There are some who also (mis)treat the players with the same contempt.
I do think that stephenPE is behaving in the exact manner he's criticizing (a point on which Ox has him over a barrel), but I suspect that what has triggered his posts are the type of thing that I've tried to describe in this post.
Gatoravatara, I'm not just trying to single you out - there are many on this board who would exaggerate / distort reality in order to make their point or have their way. Then again, if the shoe fits and all...