I've really tried not to say anything, but in the last couple of pictures you've posted I've noticed the women in your family have been wearing their make-up in a rather disturbing fashion. I'm really hoping the problem is no one has actually showed you all how to properly apply it and you were just trying your best. My suggestion is the two of you go to a large department store like Macy's or Dillard's and visit one of the make-up counters. You won't even have to ask for help; the ladies there will recognize the problem right away and get you straightened out.
Sorry for speaking up, but some times an intervention is the only option. Hope it all works out.